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No matter how prepared you think you are before having a child, parenting isn’t easy and is always full of surprises. It’s inevitable that you’ll feel overwhelmed at times as new parenting challenges arise. The best way to deal with parenting challenges is to take them in stride, and take as much help and support as people are willing to give you. Having a supportive partner to share the parenting can make a world of difference. In fact, parenting can be a lot of fun if both parents get along and participate in raising their children together. Parents face new parenting challenges at each new stage of their child’s life and must be willing to adapt and grow with their child and realize that they won’t be little babies forever.
For help with parenting and for parenting ideas and tips, pick up a parenting magazine. Parenting magazines usually offer information and advice for parents of children of all different ages. Whether you can’t stop your five-year-old from throwing temper tantrums, or you’re worried that your six month old isn’t eating enough, you’ll likely find answers to these common parenting questions in a parenting magazine.
There are many different parenting styles. Some may appear to be more successful than others, but the best parenting style really depends on the personality of the child and what they respond to best. There can’t be one correct parenting style because children are born different, with different personalities and learning styles and need to be dealt with individually. Although their environment also shapes a child’s development, behaviours, and personality, a lot of that is predetermined before birth. With many couples, each parent has a different parenting style, which can be good if the parents’ different parenting styles complement each other. However, different ideas about what parenting style is best can often lead to serious conflict between parents. Some parents are very strict with their kids while others are more lenient. Being too strict can do more harm than good, especially if the child is made to follow orders without thinking. Of course this sort of parenting style will teach a child discipline and obedience, but may not prepare the child for making decisions on their own when they’re let loose. However, parents who are too lenient with their children will run into a lot of difficulty controlling their children, who might become used to always getting their own way. Sometimes a parenting style that falls somewhere between the two is the best parenting style. Instead of trying to control your children and make all their decisions for them, try to educate your kids so that they can learn to make good decisions for themselves when they’re older. Teach your children when they’ve done wrong and why it was wrong rather than just telling them not to act that way. Kids are usually more likely to heed your advice if you give them an explanation or a reason as to why you feel a certain way about something.
One of the best places to go for advice is to other parents. Your own parents can be an invaluable resource, assuming they were decent parents to you. Most parents are very excited to be grandparents and are usually happy to help with babysitting now and then. A good way to meet other parents is to do it before your child is born, because after they’re born, you’ll find you don’t have a lot of time for going out and meeting new people. Sign up for one of those pregnant moms and dads classing that are supposed to help you through your pregnancy and prepare you for the new baby. The friends you make there will be in the same situation as you and can be very helpful when you need parenting support. There are also countless parenting advice books and articles that you can go to for help and inspiration.
Single parenting can be very difficult for a number of reasons. First of all, raising a child is very expensive and can put an enormous financial strain on single parents. Also, single parents rarely get breaks from parenting because they don’t have a partner to share the work with. A lot of single parents just fine at single parenting and provide very good homes for their children. Whether the single parent is the child’s mother or father, many single parents worry that their child will miss having a mother or father in their life. In such case, many single parents will find friends or teachers or other good mentors to spend time with their child and act as a mother or father figure.
Foster parenting is a good thing to do if you’ve got a good home to raise a child in. there are plenty of children who need good foster homes while awaiting adoption. Foster parenting can also be a real challenge. Although there are screening processes for foster parents, not all foster parents are good at foster parenting, so if you think you’d make a good parent, or if you already are a parent and have room for one more, why not try foster parenting?
Parenting classes tend to be more useful when your child is young, or even before it is born. Taking parenting classes early on could save you a lot of mistakes and frustration. For instance, a parenting class might teach you how to train and nurture your children without being too harsh or too lenient. Some parents try to much to be their children’s friend instead of their parent, and this can lead to trouble. Though it’s important to be friends with your children so that they trust you and know you’re always ready to support them, it’s also important that your children respect you and respect your decisions.