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  • Getting Good Dating Advice

     

    The hardest thing about dating advice is knowing where to turn for the good stuff. Everyone is really quick to offer you advice whether you ask for it or not, and everyone thinks that they’re an expert, even if they haven’t been on a date since 1993. You get advice shoved down your throat by everyone from the media to your mother and in the end, you still find yourself asking the same questions over and over and making the same mistakes in dating, over and over and over again. Will it ever end??

     

    I have a theory about dating advice which basically involves approaching it the way you would if you were looking for advice about car repairs; turn to a pro. By a pro in the dating sense, I don’t mean anyone who claims to be a love guru and wants you to pay some big and ridiculous bucks for advice, I mean turn to those with the most knowledge that they’ve gained through experience…like your grandmothers. Don’t laugh! I’m serious. When you think about it, the majority of people from the ‘old country’ have managed to make marriage work through good and bad over the course of many years. Most of our grandmother’s snagged a man—hopefully a good one—and kept him even after the hair turned while and the boobs lost their perk! They MUST know something!

     

    A grandmother’s advice is something that you’ve probably heard before from other people. As a matter of fact, you’ve likely heard it from friends, family and even the media. Two women have built an entire empire on the same kind of advice you could get from your grandmother or great aunt or even mother, for free! I’m talking about the RULES. Yes THE coveted rules that Charlotte on Sex and the City swears by. The same rules that have been the subject of a gazillion books and lectures. The same prudish rules that your older, wiser female loved ones have been trying to hammer into you since you were a little girl. Things like, ‘don’t ask a man out’ or ‘never call a man first’ and the ever-popular ‘make him wait for sex’.  These same rules that you’ve rolled your eyes at a million times over actually make up some of the proven best and most sound pieces of dating advice that you could possibly get your hands on! These theories have worked for women we know through the ages which must mean something.

     

    It doesn’t matter what advances we’ve made as far as equality goes and it doesn’t matter how many of us are inspired by the women on television who own their sexuality and go out and get sex if they want to. None of that can contend with the fact that humans are wired a certain way. There are instincts in men to take charge and hunt. In the beginning of time, they had to hunt for everything. Just because men today no longer need to hunt caribou in order to survive doesn’t mean that they’ve somehow lost those natural instincts! Men naturally thrive on the thrill of the hunt or chase and it’s that thrill that keeps them going strong. If you take away their reason to chase, then you’re taking away a lot of what drives them in dating. Take a cue from the cavemen and from your granny and consider just trying to leave things up to men. A little mystery will go a long way! Don’t pursue him, don’t be easy and show him that you’re worth pursuing and waiting for. You may be pleasantly surprised.


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